How to make your dreams come true?

Nicole Hsieh
2 min readJul 25, 2021
I parented myself and combed my hair. And now I got a cute hat that I’ve dreamt of.

What’s your dream?

Everyone has dreams. Some people want to travel around the world, dream of becoming successful businessmen, and others desire to help poverty.

Although everyone has dreams, why only a few people accomplish them? Because you need to make an effort to achieve your dreams.

What effort did you make?

Small decisions become our habits, and habits turn into the way we live.

Even a small decision can indeed influence our lives and even decide if we could accomplish our dreams.

However, people often make decisions not based on their goals but based on their feelings right now. As a result, we often make the most comfortable decisions for us, which may not be the right decisions.

When we were kids, if no one’s looking, we tended to relax and watched TV or played video games all day. So that’s one of the reasons why parents are important to kids.

The truth is no one is going to parent you now.

No one’s coming. No one’s coming to push you. No one’s coming to tell you turn the TV off. Nobody is coming to tell you to apply that job that you’ve always dreamt about. — Mel Robbins

After being an adult, nobody is coming to tell you what you should and shouldn’t do. It’s all up to you.

So what you should do to make your dreams come true.

It’s very simple to get what you want, but it’s not easy. — Mel Robbins

Do you believe that you can do whatever you want and get whatever you want in your life? Actually, you can be everything you desired and are supposed to be, but most people waste time thinking of it and never getting it.

The method is straightforward; however, it’s not easy — you need to start parenting yourself.

Due to people always do things that we like to do or feel good right now to do, and now as an adult, nobody’s coming to guide us, it’s essential to parenting ourselves.

When you understand that only pushing yourself and making yourself do things that you’re unwilling to do because it will make your dreams come true, there’s a tremendous amount of liberation that will comes to you.

And that’s the moment you can always push yourself and gradually make your dreams come true.

Content inspired by Mel Robbins’s video: https://youtu.be/JoQEY2sIMTg

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Nicole Hsieh

Sharing some important life perspectives with the cute Corgi photos.❤️